during this term at college i have been exploring the emotions of loss and grief, particularly the loss of a child through death and abduction .the feeling of needing some thing to hold onto for comfort .Here i explored the clutching onto a pillow something i wittnessed my own mother doing after the loss of my brother
then i found this line by Jan Glidwell .
.......You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.